Dear Amy: I’m a 43-year-old never-married man who was matched and connected online with a 50-year-old woman who was married for 30 years and has several children and grandchildren. We have been texting back in forth for a couple of months but have not yet met in person. I have scheduled several dates, and at the last minute she has had to cancel for unplanned events. I have enjoyed our conversations, as we have a lot in common.