Dear Amy: I have never seen a question like this in any advice column. I am a widow, and have been dating a widower for approximately six years. We have a very happy relationship. We have helped each other tremendously over the years to heal from our losses. The issue is my boyfriend’s daughter, “Marcia.” She is a 34-year-old nurse (I am also a nurse) and she has had a difficult time moving forward after the loss of her mother seven years ago. I believe grief counseling would help her a lot, but I’m not sure she ever went. She will not accept our relationship.