BY CALLIE ATHEY, LILLIE-BETH BRINKMAN and HELEN FORD WALLACE For The OklahomanQUESTION: I have been asked to be a bridesmaid in my friend's wedding. Are there rules that I should follow or anything that I could do to make the happy couple even happier? CALLIE'S ANSWER: Ask the bride if she needs help with planning or just needs an ear to listen.Read more on NewsOK.com