Dear Amy: I’ve attended several wedding showers recently where the groom stands around looking bored, posts to social media things like, “Save me,” and the attendees offer “condolences” that he has to spend his day with only women. I realize these things are meant in jest, but after witnessing this over and over again, it gets irritating. We women are an important part of the bride and groom’s life and have taken a day out of our busy lives to celebrate them and shower them with gifts. And I’ve got news for the groom — these showers aren’t always fun for us, either!