Dear Amy: I am approaching 70. My wife (71) and I have seen our marriage steadily decline into a relationship more like roommates than spouses. We met while working together in the media. She eventually was laid off (for business reasons) and took it personally. I still work in that industry (and have for the last 47 years). My wife never wants to talk with me about work, because she’s still resentful about how she was pushed out years ago. In fact, we talk very little about anything.