Over the past decade of working with multi-generational families, helping them to become more effective with their philanthropy, I have learned many lessons. The field of strategic philanthropy is more sophisticated and complex than ever and the understanding of philanthropic “best practices” has evolved. Some of the challenges we face in today’s world may seem intractable; however the opportunities for family philanthropy to make a difference are better defined. Bruce DeBoskey And, although philanthropy is highly individualized, there are some broadly applicable lessons.