Dear Amy: I recently moved into a new house with new roommates in a new city. I moved in after only a short Zoom tour of the place. Oops, I won’t make that mistake again. When I was talking with the roommates, one of the things they mentioned was how they liked not having a chore chart, preferring to live a more go-with-the-flow method of doing chores. I didn’t realize that meant not doing chores at all.