Dear Amy: I recently turned 21. I will be the first in my group of friends to graduate from college. This happens in a few weeks. It feels like life is starting to return to a sense of normalcy as the pandemic recedes, and my friends and I are socializing more outside of our homes — going out dancing, and enjoying the nightlife. My best friend and I are not big drinkers and every time we go out men pressure us to drink and then try to shame us for not “knowing how to party.” Can you help us come up with a witty comeback to shut down the pressure to drink? — Happy Teetotaler Dear Happy: Alcohol is the only drug I can think of where people are continuously asked to explain why they are NOT using it.