Bed wetter can get help but has to make effort What would you want your friend to do if the situation were reversed, and you were the person with the bed-wetting problem? There is help for bed wetters — medications, as well as mechanical devices — that in many cases can fix the problem. [...] only if the sufferers — and bed wetters do suffer — know help is available and are willing to ask for it. Miles appears to be a good father, but your feelings are understandable and they should be discussed with Miles before he moves in. In romantic relationships there is a certain degree of “courtship” that appears to be missing here. [...] we get into arguments during road trips about who should drive. Instead of spoiling your road trip by arguing while you’re on the road, have an agreement before you leave about how the driving duties will be shared. Because sitting in the passenger seat can become boring after a while, some couples split their trips into equal shifts. Others agree that one spouse will drive to the destination and the other will drive on the trip home.