After dating for about a year, we were married. Heartbroken in South Carolina For your own emotional well-being, accept that you have an immature, selfish, resentful daughter who is determined to punish you for going on with your life. Yesterday we attended a special board meeting intended to resolve an issue within the club. Prior to the meeting, my wife and I agreed that we were against the proposed action. After much discussion, a voice vote was taken and I ended up casting the only “no” vote. Calmly ask your wife why she changed her vote after having agreed she would vote in sync with you. [...] in the future, be prepared ahead of time to vote your conscience without support from her.