The most devastating scene in On the Record, HBO Max’s new documentary from Kirby Dick and Amy Ziering detailing sexual assault allegations against hip-hop mogul Russell Simmons, is about a love song, at least at first. She saw Simmons as a “tragic ADD puppy dog that I just had to keep retraining,” acknowledging the unspoken workplace requirement that women are made to withstand and compensate for the emotional failings of their male counterparts.