Three years ago, our 18-year-old daughter took her first trip overseas to work with a non-profit that helps families in Guatemalan coffee-growing regions. It was a good experience for her. The day she was scheduled to come back to the States, though, she called me in a panic. Her huge suitcase, loaded up with not only clothes but also about 80 pounds of gifts, had just burst open at the seams, and she wanted to know what to do.