Three and one-half stars. Rated R. In English and German with subtitles.162 minutes. “Toni Erdmann” is a wild ride, not least because of the internal dips and turns experienced by viewers as they take the measure of its title character. A big, hirsute bear of a man, Toni, as we first encounter him, is a passive-aggressive mind game in human form, using sarcasm and a series of disguises to keep everyone around him off-balance.