Any teenager who has ever had to change schools can share the pain and stress of finding new friends and becoming a trusted member of a new group. Childhood is filled with many instances of joining tight-knit groups and feeling like an outsider, including playing for a new sports team, studying with a new Sunday school class or moving to a new neighborhood. As a business coach, I know that when a new team member joins your organization, that person could have similar feelings of stress and anxiety.…