First off: Ben, you are very lovable. You still have multiple beautiful women vying for your affection on national television, where millions nationwide can crush on your Indiana-grown abs and facial scruff. You're doing fine! But that doesn't mean you can't feel unlovable. We understand. And when words aren't enough, perhaps its easier to say it with a card -- may we suggest one of these, inspired by the latest season of "The Bachelor"?