Bob: My wife and I appreciated your column about gathering vital information that our children will need when we die.We have created a notebook that has much of the information you talked about. We also planned our funerals, including which Scripture readings and hymns to use.My wife has written her obituary in the first person; I still need to do that.Also, we purchased two freestanding niches for our cremains in the Good Shepherd section of Holy Cross Cemetery.