“You deserve it,” is a phrase we often hear when something good — or bad — happens to us. The implication being we are entitled to it.“You deserve it,” is a phrase we often hear when something good — or bad — happens to us. The implication being we are entitled to it. The reality is good things happen to good people, bad things happen to bad people, bad things happen to good people and good things happen to bad people. I’ve lived long enough to experience both the good and the bad, and what helps me through either is something I learned in my home and the church in which I was raised.Read more on NewsOK.com