Dear Abby: I have recently started disclosing to close friends and family that I am asexual (someone who experiences no sexual attraction to any person). Abby, I have no clue how to maintain contact with them, as they seem unwilling to let my sexual identity be my business. Please tell your mother for me that marrying a gay man is not the answer because he may want a sex life, something to which he is entitled, by the way. After my daughter Jenna’s father tried to strangle me in a drunken rage one night, I took her and left. Because we are not in touch with his extended family, I was surprised when he told me his sister wants Jenna to be a flower girl in her destination wedding. Am I callous for thinking she just wants a cute child as an accessory to her wedding party? Without knowing your former partner’s sister, it would be unfair of me to guess her reason for wanting your daughter in her wedding. Is it sexual harassment if a female supervisor at work calls a male employee “honey”? [...] if you are the employee being called “honey,” because it bothers you, tell your employer privately that it makes you uncomfortable and you prefer being addressed by your given name.