Woman’s free babysitting is her choice, not fiance’s Dear Abby: I am a stay-at-home mom with three children. Recently, another mom asked me to care for her 3-year-old daughter while she went to work. How can I make him see that it is not a problem for me since I am stuck at home anyway? Stuck at Home in Colorado [...] ultimately, the decision about whether to do this favor for your friend should be yours, not his. When they take business trips (which is often), I take care of their cats and dogs. A few days ago, while I was in their bedroom (where the cats are kept), I saw an anatomically correct sex toy that had been left on the bed stand. If they are having “conception problems,” rest assured they will find their way to a fertility expert without your assistance. Newspaper Wedding Photo