Last Wednesday, soccer champion, equal pay/LGBTQ activist, and badass extraordinaire Abby Wambach delivered the keynote for Barnard College, an all-women's liberal arts college in Manhattan. She shared with the graduating class, who she deemed the "Wolf Pack," the four rules she used to unite her own soccer team "pack," the team which went on to win Olympic gold. Here's the first rule, "MAKE FAILURE YOUR FUEL": Here’s something the best athletes understand, but seems like a hard concept for non-athletes to grasp.