Being authentic is the best way to connect over Zoom. SDI Productions/Getty Debra Roberts is an author, licensed clinical social worker, and business consultant based in New York. She explains there are several easy ways to get people to like you over Zoom and virtual meetings. Roberts says to be yourself, show your authentic personality, and be an active and engaged listener. Visit the Business section of Insider for more stories. Most of us put pressure on ourselves to perform when we meet other people, whether at work or in a social setting, because we want them to like us.