Mothers and their children are not just connected, they’re “enmeshed.” The author with her mom, who taught her the meaning of home, among other lessons, earlier this year, and a lifetime ago. Photos courtesy of Marni JamesonPhotos courtesy of Marni Jameson “Your mother is declining,” the hospice nurse told me two weeks ago. “So, we all are,” I said, dismissing her comment. “I’ve noticed a change,” she said.