By Peter Holley, The Washington Post In the hours after a suicide bomber blew himself up near the entrance of Manchester Arena, a devastated Ariana Grande tweeted: “broken. from the bottom of my heart, i am so so sorry. i don’t have words.” It was a poignant, heartbreaking reaction from the 23-year-old pop singer, who had been performing on stage moments before the explosion killed at least 22 and wounded dozens more unsuspecting fans and their family members. Several days later, Patrick Millsaps — a 44-year-old film producer and father of three adolescent Ariana Grande fans – penned an open letter to the pop singer that has since gone viral. His goal was to lift Grande’s spirit and set her “straight” with some fatherly “redneck love.” “You don’t have a dadgum thing to apologize for,” Millsaps wrote.