Dear Amy: One of my best and oldest friends is married and expecting her first child with a man I do not like. Typically, I’m only aware of their arguments via her messages, after the fact, so I keep the “two sides to every story” in mind. But the things she reports that he says to her, I just can’t justify. She is in her third trimester now, and has always been a body-conscious person, having dealt with an eating disorder and worked with a therapist.