Dear Amy: I want a woman’s perspective. My soon-to-be wife is now hesitant to marry me because I want to live elsewhere during the winter. I’m a 30-year-old business owner and my company doesn’t really do work from Christmas to March. My fiancee and I have talked about how I will go on a three-week mountain trip in Belize, followed by a four-week hiatus trip to Costa Rica during the frigid months. We have decided not to have children, so we can travel and live a fun and stress-free life.