Dear Amy: I’m a 65-year-old, married woman with grandchildren. I live with my husband. I love social media. I suppose it’s because I’m lonely for attention. I meet young guys on social media and develop strong feelings for them. I don’t think myself as a flirt, but I have compassion for these guys going through hard times. Is my way of thinking normal? I know that we’re never going to be together, but when one guy ignores my messages I get really upset. What is your advice for me? — Lonely Dear Lonely: My concern for your emotional and physical security overrides my main advice, which is for you to look for other outlets and ways to develop healthier relationships.