Dear Amy: Recently, my fiancé and I went out with his friend (of 30 years) “George,” and George’s new girlfriend, “Janet.” George went to the restroom. Janet took his seat so we could talk (the venue was loud). After some chit chat, Janet reached over and stroked my fiancé’s face (from his jaw to his temple) without uttering a word. I was completely shocked. My fiancé left the table almost immediately to use to restroom himself.