Dear Amy: I’ve been married for 30 years, I believed happily.
My wife was never demonstrative emotionally, but I believed that we loved each other.
Three years ago, she told me that she was no longer interested in sex, and didn’t see that changing. This was a surprise to me, but the one rule of our sex life that she always insisted on was that we not discuss it.
We saw a counselor, and it helped with other communication issues, but after a year, she said she still “doesn’t see anything changing.”