Dear Amy: My husband’s very religious family has serious issues with him being gay. His brother, “Steve,” outed him in high school. He was forced into therapy, cut off financially and put through hell. In the past few years most of his family has started to include both of us in their lives — except for Steve. Steve and his wife live near us, and in the five years I have been with my husband we almost never see them, despite repeated attempts on our part.