By JACLYN COSGROVE Staff Writer jcosgrove@oklahoman.comMarla Mercer Cole understands why people don't want to willingly come to the grief support groups that she oversees. It's hard not to focus on the pain that they will feel, attending a grief support group. “They call it ‘grief work' for a reason,” said Mercer Cole, a licensed professional counselor who serves as a grief support group facilitator.Read more on NewsOK.com