BY NIKKI BUCKELEW FOR THE OKLAHOMANMany family conversations surrounding aging-related issues leave adult children confused about what their parents want and what their responsibilities will be in the years to come. Just making a subtle comment here or dropping a hint there will result in offspring feeling like they're in an endless loop of famous Abbott and Costello “Who's on First” routine. Laying it all out for your adult children may be the single best strategy for staying in control of your life as you get older. Speaking of conversation Even if you're not talking about how you want your life to be, they are — just maybe not to you.Read more on NewsOK.com