Dear Amy: Four months ago, I started dating a guy. We clicked really well. We live three hours apart, so our relationship was mostly played out through texting and emails. We had so much fun getting to know each other, but I started to see little red flags: He’d get very angry if I didn’t text him frequently, he seemed possessive, and he was pressuring me to push the relationship along faster than I wanted. Because of this, I broke up with him.